After 23 years of marriage, Dr. Sislena Grocer Ledbetter's relationship ended because of one conversation she and her partner never had. This course is her love note to every couple who wants to start stronger than she did.
You're not just investing in your future, you're protecting it.
Avoid the #1 Mistake Couples Make
"It wasn't a lack of love. It was the lack of one key conversation." - Dr. Sislena
Why Most Marriages Fail (and Yours Doesn’t Have To)
The biggest reason relationships fall apart isn’t lack of love.
It’s unspoken expectations.
It’s mismatched values.
It’s avoiding one conversation too many until the silence becomes distance.
This course walks you through the 7 conversations that most couples don’t even know they need, the ones that determine whether your love grows or unravels.
You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be honest, together.
This course walks you through the 7 conversations that most couples don’t even know they need, the ones that determine whether your love grows or unravels.
You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be honest, together.
What You'll Learn
Before this course:
- You avoid money talks because they lead to tension
- You’re not sure how to bring up sex, family trauma, or future goals
- You disagree, shut down, or escalate and then feel worse after
- You hope love will just work itself out
- You understand your own and your partner’s emotional triggers
- You talk through tough issues without losing connection
- You co-create values around parenting, home, money, and roles
- You have a shared roadmap, not just shared butterflies
You Don’t Need More Content. You Need Clarity.
Most courses give you theory.
This one gives you practice.
- Dr. Sis doesn’t just “teach”, she guides you with real-life tools
- These conversations aren’t hypothetical - they’re based on 23 years of lived marriage
- You won’t just “learn”, you’ll talk, reflect, decide, and align
This isn’t premarital counseling.
It’s relationship readiness with soul, structure, and strength.
The average cost of 2 months of couples therapy = $2,000+
The average cost of divorce = $15,000 – $30,000
This course = $1,997 for lifetime transformation
Invest in your marriage now, so you don’t have to repair it later.
What's Inside
Module 1: Communication & Conflict
Learn how to speak truth with love, navigate disagreements, and stop repeating unhelpful patterns.
Module 2: Home & Family
Align your expectations around home, family roles, parenting, and your future together.
Module 3: Spirituality & Purpose
Explore your beliefs, values, and how to support each other's spiritual path.
Module 4: Money & Financial Mindset
Talk about spending, saving, debt, and how your financial habits were shaped.
Module 5: Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Understand desires, expectations, and boundaries. Build trust through open, honest conversations.
Module 6: Mental & Emotional Health
Discuss mental health, past trauma, support systems, and how you manage emotional stress.
Module 7: Self-Awareness & Attachment Styles
Uncover love languages, attachment styles, emotional needs, and how your past impacts your present.
BONUS: Astrology & Compatibility
Explore your cosmic compatibility using astrology and astrocartography.
The Value Stack
| What's Included | Value |
|---|---|
| 7 Deep-Dive Video Modules | $997 |
| Printable Couple’s Workbook | $297 |
| Bonus Astrology & Compatibility Guide | $97 |
| Live Q&A with Dr. Sis | $1297 |
| Certificate of Completion | $29 |
| Total Value | $2,717 |
You get ALL of this for less than the cost of two months or one whole session covered here in couples therapy.
Pricing & Enrollment Options
Lifetime access
All updates included
Risk-free: Start with Module 1 for FREE
Regular price: $2497
Price today - for a limited time $1997
What Couples Are Saying
About the Creator
Dr. Sislena Grocer Ledbetter, Psychologist & Relationship Coach
Hi, I’m Sislena, a lifelong student of love. For 23 years, I was married. We built a life, raised a family, and did all the “right” things. But when our marriage ended, I realized something heartbreaking:
It wasn’t a lack of love that undid us. It was the lack of one key conversation, one we didn’t know we needed to have until it was too late.
This course was born from that moment. I knew within three months (after dating 1.5 years) that there was something critical that we had not discussed.
When I first started this journey, it was with my partner. Together, we created a presentation referencing The 5 Conversations, a joint effort born from our experience as a couple. But The 7 Conversations You Must Have Before You Say I Do came later. By the time I created this version, I was separated, uncertain, and in a season of deep reflection. I didn’t know what was ahead for me personally, but I knew I wanted to offer something meaningful to others, a roadmap for the kinds of conversations that protect love, not just ignite it.
This isn’t just a course. It’s a love note. A gentle but powerful invitation to slow down. To put preparation over elation. To pause and honor the process of deep, intentional connection beyond the fluttery feeling of falling in love.
I’m not here as a guru or a person who ‘got it all right.' I’m here as someone who’s lived the lessons, studied the science, and come out the other side with clarity and compassion.
And I’m eager to share that with you.
I loved my future partner just as deeply as you love yours. I was starry-eyed too full of butterflies, hope, and certainty. Our wedding was beautiful. We had an amazing cake, two supportive families, and dear friends who catered the celebration. We met at church, where we worked side by side in service. We truly believed divorce was not an option. This was my forever. His favorite phrase was, “if you pack your bags, pack mine too.” It was cute, and he meant it.
So yes, I understand. You feel that same unwavering love, that same sense of destiny. And that’s exactly why I created this course.
Because even with all that love, all those blessings, I missed one conversation. Just one. And it changed everything.
I still believe in love. I believe in partnership. We are still cordial and deeply respect each other. And I believe this course will give you something most couples never get, a kind of powerful emotional insurance to help you build not just a wedding day, but a relationship that satisfies and lasts.
Let’s have the conversations that matter.
“What you don’t talk about now... will talk back to you later.” Dr. Sis