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7 Conversations You Must Have Before You Say "I Do"

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Why This Book Will Transform Your Marriage

7 Conversations You Must Have Before You Say I Do is more than a premarital guide. It helps couples build a strong foundation by addressing the topics that matter most: values, expectations, money, communication, in-laws, children, spiritual life, and roles. By having these conversations before your wedding, you are investing in a marriage that lasts.

This book connects directly with the Soulful Lover approach, teaching you how to communicate with compassion, listen with empathy, and grow together as partners. It gives you the tools to turn honest conversations into deep emotional connection and intimacy that can last a lifetime.

Joining the pre-launch gives you early access, a free preview chapter, and an invitation to a community of couples committed to doing the real work that transforms an β€œI do” into a lifelong, meaningful partnership. Be among the first to experience the guidance that will help you create a marriage filled with understanding, trust, and joy.

Meet Dr. Sislena Grocer Ledbetter, β€œDr. Sis”

Author of The Seven Conversations You Must Have Before You Say I Do
Founder of The Conversation Project

If you have ever struggled to say what is really in your heart, felt misunderstood in your relationship, or wanted a deeper kind of love, Dr. Sis created this work with you in mind.

As the author of The Seven Conversations You Must Have Before You Say I Do and founder of The Conversation Project, Dr. Ledbetter helps you learn how to communicate with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Her proven approach combines psychology, soulful self-awareness, and real-life wisdom to guide you through the conversations that build trust, deepen intimacy, and prevent misunderstandings before they grow into distance.

Her training spans North Carolina Central University, Howard University, Georgetown University, and Harvard, but her greatest passion is helping you feel seen, heard, and emotionally safe in your relationships. Through years of leadership in higher education, public service, and media, including hosting A Healthy Mind, she has developed simple, practical tools you can use right away to create healthier, more intentional connections.

What makes her work especially powerful is that it comes from lived experience. The Seven Conversations was shaped by her own relationship journey, so you are learning from someone who understands the real struggles and the real transformation that love requires. Through her guidance, you will learn how to move from silence to honest dialogue, from surface-level talks to soul-deep connection, and from confusion to clarity.

Even beyond her credentials, Dr. Sis brings warmth, relatability, and joy to everything she teaches. She believes in bravery, handwritten notes, meaningful questions, and celebrating small sacred moments. If you are ready to build a relationship rooted in truth, peace, and lasting love, you are in the right place.

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