THE 7 CONVERSATIONS
YOU MUST HAVE
BEFORE YOU SAY
“I DO”
Marriage is more than a beautiful wedding day. Before you make a lifelong promise, make sure you have talked about the things that shape the life you are about to build together.
Talk About What Really Matters.
A wedding can be planned with a checklist. A marriage requires conversations. These seven conversations help you explore the questions that can shape your life together.
Communication
The unsaid about how you communicate, disagree, repair, and fight.
Home & Family
Family expectations, boundaries, traditions, and the home you are building.
Spirituality
What you actually believe and how those beliefs shape your relationship.
Money
Money, worth, financial expectations, and the life you want to create together.
Sex & Intimacy
Desire, expectations, vulnerability, intimacy, and the conversations that can be difficult to name.
What You Carry
Your emotional history, mental health experiences, wounds, and the things you may not have said.
Self-Awareness & Attachment
How you were loved, what you learned about relationships, and how that history shows up today.
Bonus Conversation
Astrology and astrocartography as additional tools for reflection and exploration.
This Is More Than A Book.
The goal isn't to give you another checklist. It is to help you excavate the conversations underneath the surface so you can enter marriage with greater honesty, awareness, and intention.
- Recognize patterns that shape your relationship.
- Talk about difficult topics with greater clarity.
- Understand how your history influences your connection.
- Name expectations before they become assumptions.
- Create language for vulnerability and honest dialogue.
- Build a relationship rooted in truth and intention.
Choose Your Experience.
Start with the book or deepen the experience with the complete book + card deck bundle.
The Book
Book + Card Deck
Keep the Conversation Going.
The 7 Conversations Book
Conversation Card Deck
Conversation Starters
Intentional Connection
For the People Who Want More Than Love.
- You're dating seriously and considering marriage.
- You're engaged and want to prepare for the partnership—not just the wedding.
- You're in a long-term relationship and ready for deeper conversations.
- You've experienced heartbreak and want to approach love differently this time.
- You want to understand yourself as much as you want to understand your partner.
- You believe healthy love requires honesty, self-awareness, and intentional conversation.
Don't just prepare for the wedding. Prepare for the conversation.
Meet Dr. Sis Ledbetter.
Dr. Sis is the author of The 7 Conversations You Must Have Before You Say “I Do” , a guide designed to help people name the conversations underneath the surface before making lifelong promises.
Her work brings together psychology, soulful self-awareness, communication, and real-life wisdom to help people create healthier, more intentional relationships.
Through The Conversation Project, Dr. Sis creates tools and spaces that encourage people to move from silence to honest dialogue, from surface-level conversations to deeper connection, and from confusion to clarity.